I am yours...

What do you girls want to receive this Valentine's day?

Wed, 09 Feb 2011 08:56:57 -0500

Thank you :) You are my perfect boyfriend<3

Tue, 08 Feb 2011 06:23:10 -0500

Sure. No problem. Thanks a lot. :)

Hi there. Umm. I don't know how to explain this. But, i think i'm getting crazy. You know, i couldn't get over it with my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend. And it's getting on my nerve. Actually their relationship are already over 4 years back. But the girl, she just can't move on!! And fact, she's been posting their past pictures together. And yet, the girl just couldn't stop hoping for my boyfriend to come back to her! Like uhh come on. He has his own life now with me! And we've been together for almost 2 years. What i'm afraid now, i'm scared my boyfriend will certainly be with her once again. And i'm scared of that.

:'( I even couldn't sleep well every night. Cause i'm screwed of this nightmares. Please help me. Am i being too paranoid? :(

Sat, 05 Feb 2011 11:31:38 -0500

Indeed you are. Don’t over-think too much. It’s normal to feel that way though. You love your boyfriend and you’re scared of losing him. I understand.

Thing is, you have to trust your boyfriend and your relationship. You shouldn’t be bothered by his ex-girlfriend because she’s already a part of his past. You’re his present now. You don’t have to think of anything. Instead, show your love to him the best way you can. If you will continue to act this way, you might lose him even more. It may cause problems to you both in the future. So don’t.

Prove to your boyfriend that you’re way better than his ex-girlfriend. I’m sure he has his reasons why their relationship didn’t work. So better not do the same.

Also, it’s not good for your health. Think of all the memories you shared together. Just love him. That’s all you need to think about. Everything will be fine. :)

Photo

Sat, 05 Feb 2011 04:14:22 -0500

"Don’t let the imaginary person in your head keep you from loving the real one right in front..."

Fri, 04 Feb 2011 11:46:33 -0500

“Don’t let the imaginary person in your head keep you from loving the real one right in front of you.”

Photo

Fri, 04 Feb 2011 09:22:41 -0500

Photo

Fri, 04 Feb 2011 09:22:04 -0500

WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN?

Fri, 04 Feb 2011 09:19:36 -0500

kimpoyfeliciano:

WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN FOR YOU? Share it. :)

lovee your blog hon, its really sweet:)
do you act this way in real life? like, why do you just offer to help?
dont stop though, i love it:P
xx

Fri, 04 Feb 2011 09:13:53 -0500

Thank you. It seriously means a lot to me. :)

And yeah, what you see here is what you get. I’m actually trying my best to act like my real self. You girls don’t deserve to be fooled. Instead, you should be treated like the most fragile being here on Earth. If I will fake my real personality, then what difference do I have against those stupid guys who broke your heart and treated most of you like shit? That doesn’t make sense does it?

I love me girls too much and I never want to hurt them in any way potentially. I have a lot of girl friends, a sister and even my own mother whom I witnessed how their hearts were almost shattered by some dude who doesn’t even give a damn about their feelings. I don’t want to be a part of any of that. Instead, I feel like averting it as possible as I can. Hence, I came to the idea of creating this blog and thinking that at some ways I can be of help to you ladies.

As long as somebody needs me, I will always be here. :)

Distance is just a space in between. It’s only as far...

Thu, 03 Feb 2011 14:40:51 -0500

Distance is just a space in between. It’s only as far apart as our hearts will let it.

I missed you a lot.

Thu, 03 Feb 2011 14:39:16 -0500

I missed you a lot.

I don't know very well how to put this..How do I cope with the fact that I can't get close to a guy on more than just a friend level? Several months ago I had my heart broken by a guy who told me that he didn't want a relationship, just to go on with our "close physical friendship" and me being his confidante.. I couldn't say yes to that, because I had already fallen for him and continuing something like that would end up in me suffering even more than I did. Now, every time I find myself close to a boy I like, when I realise we're crossing the "friends line" , I just feel like putting a brick wall between us and running away screaming! I just need an honest and objective opinion, what do I do? How do I move on?

Sincerely,
S.

Thu, 03 Feb 2011 14:37:14 -0500

Hi there. Thank you for trusting me on this one. Next time though, I will appreciate it more if you won’t send as an anon and show us your pretty sweet face. :)

Anyway, what could be his possible reason for not wanting a relationship with you? Well, I don’t want to assume what happened between you two so I won’t go into details about that one.

You have to remember that not all guys are the same. We have different personalities. You have to be fair to everyone. If someone caused you pain, that doesn’t mean everyone will do the same. Sometimes, all you need is someone whom you can talk all your problems with. There’s nothing wrong with being friends with guys. Don’t be afraid to get hurt the second time, third time or even the fourth time. Pain is what makes you stronger more than anything. What you should be afraid of is, not knowing how to love anymore. Love is the only thing that keeps the world goes round.

No one can teach you a step-by-step guide on how to move on. Even I can’t make you forget everything that happened. Whatever I tell you or whatever advice I give you won’t change anything if you won’t help yourself.

Happiness is a choice. Enjoy whatever you have now for you may be missing a lot in the future. Appreciate all the love you are receiving now from your friends and your family. That single guy who hurt you is stupid for letting a precious girl like you go.

hey.. i followed u... =) btw, ur have a very nice blog.... i reblog whole things from ur blog... i hope u don't mind.. keep it up posting! huhu
r u male or female?

Thu, 03 Feb 2011 13:51:02 -0500

Hi! :) Thanks a lot. I’m glad someone appreciates my blog. :)

And I don’t mind really. In fact, I’m giving you the permission to reblog more. :)

That’s a tough one. :| Lol. Isn’t it obvious yet? I’m your perfect boyfriend. :)

kay-swift: There are so many ways on how to show her your love....

Mon, 31 Jan 2011 08:31:49 -0500

kay-swift:

There are so many ways on how to show her your love. But these are just one of my favorites. ^u^

You don't have the slightest idea how much I'm missing you right now. :|

Mon, 31 Jan 2011 02:55:52 -0500

steppie: And, we’re back with another contest! FOLLOW + RE-BLOG...

Mon, 31 Jan 2011 02:54:26 -0500

steppie:

And, we’re back with another contest!

FOLLOW + RE-BLOG THIS TO WIN A BLACK / GOLD FOIL “I AM A NINJA” TEE!
Contest ends on 1/31/11 at 11pm PST.
Check back on Tuesday morning to find out the winner!

The black/gold foil Ninja tee (and much more!) is available at my online store.

Follow me on Tumblr to be eligible + for more giveaways!
Official website: http://thesteppie.com
Online shop: http://steppie.etsy.com
Twitter: @the_steppie
Facebook: steppie.panda

"The best smell in the world is the man that you love."

Mon, 31 Jan 2011 02:54:19 -0500

“The best smell in the world is the man that you love.”

- Jennifer Aniston (via parkavenueprincess)

my boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago cause he told me we had too many troubles and too many arguements and that he was fed up with me giving him grievances and that his feelings for me died.
he's in UK, I'm in Poland. Also he told me he had a new girl already.
And I'm broken.
We were together for almost 3 years [2 years and 8 months], I still love him and I can't believe that he doesnt love me anymore cause for me he was the bestest guy I've ever met. :/ :(

Sat, 29 Jan 2011 05:58:07 -0500

Hi there. :) Thank you for sending me this message and trusting me to help you on this. It’s greatly appreciated. Though, I will appreciate it next time if you won’t send as an anon and show the whole Tumblr your pretty face. :)

To be honest, I despise your boyfriend for letting you go. You’re the most pretty, kind and perfect girl ever lived here on Earth. Even you’re an anon, I can feel it. You’re an honest girl and you shouldn’t let some guy ruin yourself.

Distance shouldn’t be a problem in a relationship. If you two really love each other, the absence of the other is not a big deal.

Hi there. :) Thank you for sending me this message and trusting me to help you on this. It’s greatly appreciated. Nonetheless, I will appreciate it more next time if you won’t send as an anon and let the whole Tumblr see your pretty face. :)

To be frank, I despise your boyfriend for letting you go. You’re the prettiest, kind, sincere and perfect girl ever lived here on Earth. Even you’re an anon, I can sense it. You’re an honest girl and you shouldn’t let a single guy ruin yourself.

Distance shouldn’t be a problem in a relationship. If you two really love each other, the absence of the other is not a big deal.

No one can help you move on but yourself. Happiness is a preference. If you want to be happy then you will be. Have some time for yourself. Hang out with your friends. Spend some time with your family. Have fun. You don’t deserve someone who doesn’t appreciate your importance and treats you like shit. Appreciate everything around you. It’s not the end of the world. You may have lost someone special in your life but who knows, maybe someone better will come. Take everything slowly. We will never know what future awaits us.

Be happy. Stay affirmative. Take pleasure in your life. Learn to appreciate whatever is around you. Everything will be fine. Trust me. :)

Girl: Which is more important to you, your life or me?

Sat, 29 Jan 2011 00:38:59 -0500

Girl: Which is more important to you, your life or me?
Boy: Before I answer that, let me ask you first.
Girl: Sure.
Boy: Is there a difference between you and my life?

We always hold hands. If I let go, she shops.

Sat, 29 Jan 2011 00:32:02 -0500

I am yours...

What do you girls want to receive this Valentine's day?

Thank you :) You are my perfect boyfriend<3

Photo

"Don’t let the imaginary person in your head keep you from loving the real one right in front..."

Photo

Photo

WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN?

lovee your blog hon, its really sweet:) do you act this way in real life? like, why do you just offer to help? dont stop though, i love it:P xx

Distance is just a space in between. It’s only as far...

I missed you a lot.

hey.. i followed u... =) btw, ur have a very nice blog.... i reblog whole things from ur blog... i hope u don't mind.. keep it up posting! huhu r u male or female?

kay-swift: There are so many ways on how to show her your love....

You don't have the slightest idea how much I'm missing you right now. :|

steppie: And, we’re back with another contest! FOLLOW + RE-BLOG...

"The best smell in the world is the man that you love."

Girl: Which is more important to you, your life or me?

We always hold hands. If I let go, she shops.

lovee your blog hon, its really sweet:)
do you act this way in real life? like, why do you just offer to help?
dont stop though, i love it:P
xx

hey.. i followed u... =) btw, ur have a very nice blog.... i reblog whole things from ur blog... i hope u don't mind.. keep it up posting! huhu
r u male or female?